Children and baby funerals

Losing a child is the most painful experience any of us can face. It is difficult to make the decisions and choices whilst feeling so vulnerable, so over the days we help you to give careful consideration to the choices available along with the support and advice you would expect from experienced professionals to plan the funeral so that it reflects their personality and their time in the world, however short, and gives a degree of comfort to the family at such a distressing time. We will work with you to capture their essence in the most appropriate funeral service possible.

For the funerals of babies and children up to 16 years:

We do not make any charges to transfer the child into our care, to provide Private Chapel of Rest facilities nor to care for the child until the day of their funeral.

We will make a minimal professional service charge, a charge for the vehicle and a charge for the coffin of your choice.

In addition, there may be third party charges from the Cemetery or Crematorium.

Transport

Depending upon the age of the child it is not always appropriate to use a hearse, and it is not always appropriate to use a black hearse. We can discuss the wide variety of transport options.

Coffin

It is traditional to have a white coffin for a child but it is possible to have a bespoke design reflecting favourite things such as TV shows, colours or traditional coffins.

Memorial Stationery

We can arrange Orders of Service totally personalised to your requirements in full colour including photographs. These can provide mourners with a welcome keepsake of the day and make a lovely item for a memory box.

Dove Release & Helium Balloons

It is becoming more popular to release doves as a symbol of love and “freedom”. As an alternative, people are also choosing to release helium filled balloons. We are happy to arrange this and obtain any permissions required on your behalf.

Visiting the Chapel of Rest

We will do everything we can to make sure that your visit to the Chapel of Rest is as peaceful and as beneficial to you and your family as possible.  If you would like us to take hand/footprints or keep a lock of hair for a Memory Box, please ask.

We understand that your child is your child however old or young they may be and that you will want to take care of them in your way as long as possible.  We encourage families to participate in the arrangements and we will ensure that you do as much as  you can and want to.  At the times that we are responsible for their care, we promise to treasure them as if they were our own.


Alternative funeral vehicles in Sutton Coldfield and Birmingham

 

Daniel Ross Funeral Directors in Sutton Coldfield pride themselves in offering families every available option to personalise the funeral.

As pictured, the VW Beetle stretch Limousine is an alternate vehicle to use in place of our traditional black Daimler Limousines.

In addition to the limousine, a VW Hearse is also available.

 

Alternative funeral vehicles we can offer

As standard, many families chose to use our black Daimler Hearse and Limousines for a traditional and prestigious funeral but at Daniel Ross Funerals we can also offer:

  • White or Black Horse Drawn Hearse
  • Rolls Royce fleet
  • White or Pink Hearse
  • Estate Cars
  • Land Rover Hearse

Do contact us here to discuss any special funeral vehicle that you would like to use.


Best Funeral Director in Sutton Coldfield – The Good Funeral Guide

How do you find the best Funeral Director in Sutton Coldfield? The Good Funeral Guide can help you.

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The Good Funeral Guide is wholly independent of the funeral industry and strives to provide the newly bereaved with guidance to enable them to choose the best funeral director to help them at the most difficult time in their lives.

In our opinion, Daniel Ross Funerals, based on the Eachelhurst Road, Walmley, Sutton Coldfield is the best Funeral Director in Sutton Coldfield and the only one we recommend you use. Other Funeral Directors have requested that we recommend their services, sadly we cannot.

Daniel Ross Funerals and their dedicated team possess a vocational quality that is completely unique – you rarely see the standard set as high as this.

Charles Cowling – Author of the Good Funeral Guide

We are honoured to receive praise like this and will always do our best to meet the high standards we have set for care, compassion and good service.


Burial or Cremation in Sutton Coldfield and Birmingham

Planning a funeral and deciding upon Burial or Cremation is an emotional process with several legal and financial matters to consider. The purpose of a funeral is to give meaning to a person’s life and to say goodbye. It is an opportunity for family and friends to gather and remember the person who has passed away, while offering support and comfort to one another.

At Daniel Ross Funerals, we are here to help, support and ensure your wishes and those of your loved one are carried out with the care and compassion that we would wish for our own family.

Our highly trained and dedicated funeral directors are here to help and offer guidance to you and your family, and will provide all the information and costs necessary for you to make an informed choice on Burial or Cremation. We are totally familiar with the local Crematoria and Cemeteries throughout Sutton Coldfield and Birmingham areas.

Contact us 24 hours a day on 0121 313 0054, we would be honoured to serve you during your time of need.


PrePaid Funeral Plans in Sutton Coldfield and Erdington

Why not save your loved ones the financial and emotional stress of arranging your funeral and enquire about prepaid funeral plans today.

What are Prepaid Funeral Plans?

Basically, pre-paid Funeral Plans are bonds which can be paid either in full on the date of creation, or over easy monthly periods. The money is placed into a trust fund and invested from the time you create it, to the date of your death. Upon your death, the bond is paid to the funeral director, to cover your funeral costs.

Who can arrange Prepaid Funeral Plans?

There are no restrictions on medical grounds or age. As long as you are over the age of 18, you are able to organise your own prepaid Funeral Plan.

How do I purchase a prepaid Funeral Plan?

Contact us, Daniel Ross Funerals of Walmley, on our 24 hour telephone and helpline 0121 313 0054 and we can arrange a meeting at your convenience, to discuss your requirements further.

Do I get to decide what my prepaid funeral plan includes?

When arranging your Funeral Plan, you will be asked the questions you would normally be asked when arranging a funeral. All of your personal choices will be noted down, and the Funeral Plan structured to your requirements.

Are Funeral Plans expensive?

They can be, but for a limited time, Daniel Ross Funerals are offering “A Simple with Complete Care” Funeral Plan which is most competitively priced.

How do I pay for my Plan?

You can either pay for your plan in one lump sum, or in easy monthly payments. We can discuss this in more detail via telephone, 0121 313 0054

Who holds the funds?

Perfect Choice Funeral Plans within The National Association of Funeral Directors.

Will my Funeral Plan cover 100% of the Funeral Cost at the time of my death?

Very often yes it would, but we cannot control third party costs such as the Crematorium or doctors fees. Although these costs have historically risen by inflation which would then be covered by the growth of the prepaid funeral plan, there may come a time when this isn’t the case. If at the time of need, the third party costs are higher than the value of the contribution, there will then be a shortfall in the Plan. The funeral directors fees which include items such as our services, vehicles and coffin/casket are 100% guaranteed.

 

 


Walmley funeral home supports bereaved children

Daniel Ross Funerals, a family owned Funeral Directors of Eachelhurst Road, Walmley, Sutton Coldfield has launched a Child Bereavement Support Campaign in conjunction with the National Association of Funeral Directors, Perfect Choice Funeral Plans and the bereavement charity Penhaligons’ Friends.

They have contributed to the funding of the publication of a Bereavement Handbook entitled “Remember Me Always” as it is estimated that around 85% of funerals have a child touch point where the loss may be a grandparent, aunt/uncle, friend or more tragically, a parent or sibling. The guide explains how to approach difficult subjects, including breaking bad news to a child, explaining burial and cremation, how best to help a child express their feelings and gives valuable advice to a parent as they toy with the options and decisions involved in a funeral such as should they allow their child to the chapel of rest or to attend the funeral.

“Remember Me Always” is the fourth in a series of user friendly guides – the other three titles being aimed at assisting schools, healthcare professionals and the clergy. The Authors both work for Penhaligon’s Friends and have drawn on their personal experiences as well as research.

Sarah Wolsey, owner of the Eachelhurst Road funeral home, said, “These guides have been written by child bereavement experts and offer support and advice on a range of subjects. In my role as a Funeral Director, I am often asked for my advice on these subjects, and luckily I have spent time volunteering with bereavement counselling and support groups, but I realise that I am in a minority. When I first saw these guides I was impressed with how accessible they are, easy to use with attractive illustrations. As it is a subject close to my heart, I didn’t hesitate to meet the publishing costs and make all four of these guides available free of charge for those people with a genuine need and where the need is anticipated. This guide is particularly valuable before the death has actually occurred as it allows a parent to think about the options before they have to make a decision about them”.

For further information on how to obtain a free copy “Remember Me Always” or one of its sister publications aimed at professionals, please pop in to the funeral home at Grace Mary House, 255 Eachelhurst Road, Walmley, Sutton Coldfield, B76 1DT or contact Daniel Ross Funerals on 0121 313 0054.


Best Funeral Director in Walmley, Sutton Coldfield

Daniel Ross Funerals are proud to announce they have been awarded as the best Funeral Director in Walmley and Sutton Coldfield by The Good Funeral Guide.

The Team at Daniel Ross Funerals

The full review made by Author and Director Charles Cowling may be read on Daniel Ross Funerals’ website. Daniel and his sister Sarah along with their dedicated team remain committed to providing a completely personal and bespoke level of service to the families they are honoured to support.

In addition, this family owned Funeral Directors strive to keep their charges highly competitive, so that their superior level of service is affordable to all.

During recent market research, it was confirmed that their funeral charges were much lower than Co-operative Funeral Care in Pype Hayes, Co-operative Funeral Care in Sutton Coldfield, and Dignity Funeral Directors throughout Erdington such as A.Hazel and E.F Edwards.

Our funeral home, Grace Mary House, on Eachelhurst Road, Walmley stands in memory of our niece, who died as a child. We are proud that in her memory, our funeral home provides the facilities needed to support and guide bereaved families whilst maintaining a need for humanity as our own emotions are never too far away.

Please read our testimonials for more.

 


Funeral service in Walmley Sutton Coldfield – Our aftercare

At Daniel Ross Funerals, we are committed to providing not only an exceptional  funeral service in Walmley Sutton Coldfield but a complete service to our clients and their families.

Through our experiences and knowledge of bereavement support are able to offer this general advice and much more detailed literature and assistance to the families we serve.

Following the funeral service, we are quite often at a loss as what to say to support and help someone who is grieving.

It can be very uncomfortable to be with someone in the midst of such pain and anguish. Quite often, we just want to fix it for them and make the pain go away; however we can’t.

Here are some guidelines that we hope will be helpful.

Acknowledge their loss; make sure they are aware that you do appreciate how much they are hurting and know how important that person was in their life.

Don’t be afraid to mention the person that has died or to talk about them.

Support the emotions they are feeing at that particular time. Want to cry… go ahead.  Want to scream… fine to do so.

Unerstand that there is no timeline for grieving; it doesn’t go away. What occurs over a period of time is adjustment and acceptance.

Please don’t offer platitudes; it really isn’t helpful.

Remember the first twelve month calendar is huge and they will need your ongoing support throughout.

 

 


Caring for your loved at a funeral directors in Sutton Coldfield

Here, at Daniel Ross Funerals in Sutton Coldfield we are immensely proud of our facilities and Preparation suite.

We consider the care to your loved one to be the most important thing we can do, for this reason, we welcome families that may choose to be involved in the washing and dressing of their loved one.

Our preparation suite has the very latest equipment and aids to ensure that your loved one is not only cared for with dignity and respect, but their safety is vital too.

Our preparation suite is within our funeral home, Grace Mary House, for your added peace of mind and reassurance. Unfortunately, not all funeral homes are the same and it is always worth checking with the funeral director of your choice, especially if they are caring for many families and only have one Chapel of Rest:

  1. Where will my loved one be resting?
  2. Will they always remain within the Chapel of Rest even when I am not visiting?
  3. Can I help to wash my loved one, should I wish?
  4. Can I see your preparation area or mortuary, should I choose to?
  5. You have a preparation area or mortuary within your funeral home, do you not?  – it’s not in a separate building is it?

Unfortunately, many funeral directors are not able to answer these questions and sadly do not have these facilities on site which means your loved one is not actually in the place where you think they are.

We believe our openness and honesty really do give your peace of mind. That’s our personal guarantee to you.


Funerals in Sutton Coldfield – Poems

For families needing to arrange funerals in Sutton Coldfield, we offer unlimited support and guidance.
Here is a small selection of poems that we hope may be useful or possibly provide a small amount of comfort at this very difficult time.
Do Not Stand At My Grave and Weep
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there.
I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn’s rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there.
I did not die.

Mary Frye

Death Is Nothing At All
Death is nothing at all
I have only slipped away into the next room
I am I and you are you
Whatever we were to each other
That we are still
Call me by my old familiar name
Speak to me in the easy way you always used
Put no difference into your tone
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed
At the little jokes we always enjoyed together
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was
Let it be spoken without effort
Without the ghost of a shadow in it
Life means all that it ever meant
It is the same as it ever was
There is absolute unbroken continuity
What is death but a negligible accident?
Why should I be out of mind
Because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you for an interval
Somewhere very near
Just around the corner
All is well.
Nothing is past; nothing is lost
One brief moment and all will be as it was before
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!

Canon Henry Scott-Holland

She Is Gone (He Is Gone)
You can shed tears that she is gone
Or you can smile because she has lived
You can close your eyes and pray that she will come back
Or you can open your eyes and see all that she has left
Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her
Or you can be full of the love that you shared
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday
You can remember her and only that she is gone
Or you can cherish her memory and let it live on
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back
Or you can do what she would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

David Harkins

 

Let Me Go

 

When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little, but not for long
And not with your head bowed low
Remember the love that once we shared
Miss me, but let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It’s all part of the master plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart
Go the friends we know.
Laugh at all the things we used to do
Miss me, but let me go.
When I am dead my dearest
Sing no sad songs for me
Plant thou no roses at my head
Nor shady cypress tree
Be the green grass above me
With showers and dewdrops wet
And if thou wilt remember
And if thou wilt, forget.
I shall not see the shadows,
I shall not fear the rain;
I shall not hear the nightingale
Sing on as if in pain;
And dreaming through the twilight
That doth not rise nor set,
Happily I may remember,
And happily may forget.

Christina Rosetti

 

Remember

 

Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you planned:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.

Christina Rosetti

Our memories build a special bridge
When loved ones have to part
To help us feel were with them still
And soothe a grieving heart
They span the years and warm our lives
Preserving ties that bind
Our memories build a special bridge
And bring us peace of mind

Emily Mathews

There is no night without a dawning
No winter without a spring
And beyond the dark horizon
Our hearts will once more sing ….
For those who leave us for a while
Have only gone away
Out of a restless, care worn world
Into a brighter day

Helen Steiner Rice

You’ve just walked on ahead of me
And I’ve got to understand
You must release the ones you love
And let go of their hand.
I try and cope the best I can
But I’m missing you so much
If I could only see you
And once more feel your touch.
Yes, you’ve just walked on ahead of me
Don’t worry I’ll be fine
But now and then I swear I feel
Your hand slip into mine.
If I should die before the rest of you
Break not a flower nor inscribe a stone
Nor, when I’m gone, speak in a Sunday voice,
But be the usual selves that I have known.
Weep if you must
Parting is hell.
But life goes on.
So sing as well.

Joyce Grenfell

If I should die and
Leave you here awhile
Be not like others sore undone,
Who keep long vigils
By the silent dust and weep.
For my sake turn again
To life and smile
Nerving thy heart
And trembling hand to do
Something to comfort
Other hearts than thine.
Complete these dear
Unfinished Tasks of mine,
And I, perchance
May therein comfort you.

Mary Lee Hall

When I am dead, my dearest,
Sing no sad songs for me;
Plant thou no roses at my head,
Nor shady cypress tree:
With showers and dewdrops wet;
And if thou wilt, remember,
And if thou wilt, forget..
I shall not see the shadows,
I shall not feel the rain;
I shall not hear the nightingale
Sing on, as if in pain;
And dreaming through the twilight
That doth not rise nor set,
Haply I may remember
And haply may forget.

Christina Rossetti

At every turning of my life
I came across
Good friends,
Friends who stood by me
Even when the time raced me by.
Farewell, farewell
My friends
I smile and
Bid you goodbye.
No, shed no tears
For I need them not
All I need is your smile.
If you feel sad
Do think of me
For that’s what I’ll like.
When you live in the hearts
Of those you love
Remember then
You never die.

Rabindranath Tagore

Not, how did he die, but how did he live?
Not, how did he die, but how did he live?
Not, what did he gain, but what did he give?
These are the units to measure the worth
Of a man as a man, regardless of his birth.
Nor what was his church, nor what was his creed?
But had he befriended those really in need?
Was he ever ready, with words of good cheer,
To bring back a smile, to banish a tear?
Not what did the sketch in the newspaper say,
But how many were sorry when he passed away?

Anonymous

i carry your heart with me (i carry it in
my heart) i am never without it (anywhere
i go you go, my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing, my darling)
i fear
no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet) i want
no world (for beautiful you are my world, my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you
here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of a tree called life; which grows
higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart
i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart)

e.e.cummings

What though the radiance which was once so bright
Be now forever taken from my sight,
Though nothing can bring back the hour
Of splendour in the grass, of glory in the flower;
We will grieve not, rather find
Strength in what remains behind.

William Wordsworth, Intimations of Immortality

And when the stream that overflows has passed,
A consciousness remains upon the silent shore of memory;
Images and precious thoughts that shall not be
And cannot be destroyed.

William Wordsworth, from The Excursion

A Reflection on an Autumn Day
I took up a handful of grain and let it slip flowing through my fingers, and I said to myself
This is what it is all about. There is no longer any room for pretence. At harvest time the essence is revealed – the straw and chaff are set aside, they have done their job. The grain alone matters – sacks of pure gold.
So it is when a person dies the essence of that person is revealed. At the moment of death a person’s character stands out happy for the person who has forged it well over the years. Then it will not be the great achievement that will matter, nor, how much money or possessions a person has amassed. These like the straw and the chaff, will be left behind. It is what he has made of himself that will matter. Death can take away from us what we have, but it cannot rob us of who we are.
Footprints on the sands of time
Tell me not, in mournful numbers,
Life is but an empty dream! —
For the soul is dead that slumbers,
And things are not what they seem.
Life is real! Life is earnest!
And the grave is not its goal;
Dust thou art, to dust returnest,
Was not spoken of the soul.
Not enjoyment, and not sorrow,
Is our destined end or way;
But to act, that each to-morrow
Find us farther than to-day.
Art is long, and Time is fleeting,
And our hearts, though stout and brave,
Still, like muffled drums, are beating
Funeral marches to the grave.
Trust no Future, howe’er pleasant!
Let the dead Past bury its dead!
Act, — act in the living Present!
Heart within, and God o’erhead!
Lives of great men all remind us
We can make our lives sublime,
And, departing, leave behind us
Footprints on the sands of time;
Footprints, that perhaps another,
Sailing o’er life’s solemn main,
A forlorn and shipwrecked brother,
Seeing, shall take heart again.
Let us, then, be up and doing,
With a heart for any fate;
Still achieving, still pursuing,
Learn to labor and to wait.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

My candle burns at both ends; It will not last the night; But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends It gives a lovely light!

Edna St.Vincent Millay

Readings With Faith
“…You would know the secret of death.
But how shall you find it unless you seek it in the heart of life?
The owl whose night-bound eyes are blind unto the day cannot
unveil the mystery of light.
If you would indeed behold the spirit of death,
open your heart wide unto the body of life.
For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one.In the depth of your hopes and desires
lies your silent knowledge of the beyond;
And like seeds dreaming beneath the snow, your heart dreams of spring.
Trust the dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity…For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun?
And what is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides,
that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing.
And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb.
And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance…”

Kahlil Gibran

We seem to give them back to Thee, 0 God who gayest them to us.
Yet as Thou didst not lose them in giving,
So do we not lose them by their return.
Not as the world giveth, givest Thou 0 Lover of souls.
What Thou givest Thou takest not away,
For what is Thine is ours also if we are thine.
And life is eternal and love is immortal,
And death is only an horizon,
And an horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight.
Lift us up, strong Son of God that we may see further;
Cleanse our eyes that we may see more clearly;
Draw us closer to Thyself
That we may know ourselves to be nearer to our loved ones who are with Thee.
And while Thou dost prepare a place for us, prepare us also for that happy place,
That where Thou art we may be also for evermore.

Bishop Brent

A ship sails and I stand watching till she fades on the horizon and someone at my side says She is gone
Gone where? Gone from my sight, that is all. She is just as large now as when I last saw her. Her diminished size and total loss from my sight is in me, not in her.
And just at the moment when someone at my side says she is gone there are others who are watching her coming over their horizon and other voices take up a glad shout There she comes!
That is what dying is. An horizon and just the limit of our sight. Lift us up, Oh Lord, that we may see further

Bishop Brent

 

Irish Blessing

 

May the roads rise up to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
May the rains fall soft upon fields
And until we meet again
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.

Anon

Tis only we who grieve
They do not leave
They are not gone
They look upon us still
They walk among the valleys now
They stride upon the hill
Their smile is in the summer sky
Their grace is in the breeze
Their memories whisper in the grass
Their calm is in the trees
Their light is in the winter snow
Their tears are in the rain
Their merriment runs in the brook
Their laughter in the lane
Their gentleness is in the flowers
They sigh in autumn leaves
They do not leave
They are not gone
Tis only we who grieve
If only we could see the splendour of the land
To which our loved ones are called from you and me
We’d understand
If only we could hear the welcome they receive
From old familiar voices all so dear
We would not grieve
If only we could know the reason why they went
We’d smile and wipe away the tears that flow
And wait content.

Anon

When we lose a loved one
Our world just falls apart
We think that we cant carry on
With this broken heart
Everything is different now
You’re upset and you’re annoyed
Your world it seems is shattered
There’s such an awful void
There’s got to be a reason
And we have to understand
God made us and at any time
Hell reach down for our hand
There might not be a warning
We won’t know where or when
The only thing were certain of
Is well meet them once again.

Anon

Responses for a Burial
Into the darkness and warmth of the earth
We lay you down
Into the sadness and smiles of our memories
We lay you down
Into the cycle of living and dying and rising again
We lay you down
May you rest in peace, in fulfilment, in loving
May you run straight home in God’s embrace

Ruth Burgess

Responses for a Cremation
Into the freedom of wind and sunshine
We let you go
Into the dance of the stars and the planets
We let you go
Into the wind’s breath and the hands of the star maker
We let you go
We love you, we miss you, we want you to be happy
Go safely, go dancing, go running home

Ruth Burgess

God looked around his garden
And found an empty place,
He then looked down upon the earth
And saw your tired face.
He put his arms around you
And lifted you to rest.
God’s garden must be beautiful
He always takes the best.
He knew that you were suffering
He knew you were in pain.
He knew that you would never
Get well on earth again.
He saw the road was getting rough
And the hills were hard to climb.
So he closed your weary eyelids
And whispered, ‘Peace be Thine’.
It broke our hearts to lose you
But you didn’t go alone,

For part of us went with you, the day called you home.

 

 

For further support and guidance on arranging funerals in Sutton Coldfield, please contact Daniel Ross Funerals on 0121 313 0054